Saturday, March 9, 2013

How to get over a breakup

Breakups suck. They just do.

Sometimes they are needed though. Sometimes they help you find who you are again.
Sometimes they help you to grow strength. Sometimes they can give you a renewed sense 
of yourself that has been missing for awhile.

The following is a list of what I have found to be the "Best's" for breakups.

The best movie for a breakup:
Legally Blonde - - why? It is a complete girl power movie. 
I mean first Elle gets dumped and feels sad but that doesn't last long.
Elle then starst fighting for a dream that she didn't know was
inside of her. The whole time Elle fights for this dream, she stays true
to herself and doesn't care what others think and 
everyone falls in love with her as she is true to her personality.
Then as Elle starts chasing this dream for herself, she meets the love
of her life and she didn't have to change one bit for him.

Elle never let her personal problems get in the way.
She stood up for herself when she needed to. 
She even went out of her way to help others feel 
loved and accepted.

Elle had so much faith in herself.
She had confidence that just radiates.

{I may or may not have watched this movie 5 times in the past week}

Best food for a breakup:
Chocolate Ice cream and fudge bars - - you can never go wrong with chocolate

Best mood lifter for a breakup:
Curl your hair, wear your special outfits, rock that new glamour look!
Put an effort into getting ready and looking your greatest and you
will feel confident everywhere you go.
Confidence is needed so much during this hard time.

Best way to deal with a breakup:
Talk - find someone you can confide in and talk to them. Open up. 
Let all the past scars be the solace to what has made you stronger.
You are free - focus on the opportunities that lie before you
AND PRAY - which is kinda the same thing. 
Talk to Heavenly Father and ask him for his help in this. 
He knows everything on your heart all ready, so share it with
 the one who wants what is best for you.

Best song for a breakup:
I can't pick just one.
Better in time - Leona Lewis
Stronger - Kelly Clarkson
First cut is the deepest - Sheryl Crow

(Taylor Swift, Carrie Underwood and Kelly Clarkson have written tons of songs
relating to breakups but many of them relate to the certain circumstances that they
went through, I found it hard to relate to many of them.)

That's all I can think of right now. There may be a part 2 to this post.
I just wanted to share what has worked best for me so if you ever find yourself
going through a hard breakup maybe some of these will help.
Just find what works best for you.
Like they say, Time will heal all wounds.
Maybe if I get brave I will share my whole story.

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